Greater Than Ourselves

Sometimes, you just know everything is going to be okay.

Your college age daughter may dump her clothes by the door, but she is home for the holidays. A clean house is not important.

You willingly spend almost six hours in the car to attend the funeral of your friend’s dad because you know she needs you and there is no other place you want to be at that moment but there supporting her.

God keeps reminding me of the joy in the everyday stuff of life. Life is not easy. It’s messy. It’s sad. It’s just plain tough at times. 

Working with elders has taught me an important life lesson at a young age. The things that matter in life are the meaningful relationships we create along our journey. Every day, we have the opportunity to touch lives through our words, actions, and love. 

As I sat in the funeral today, I felt part of something greater than myself. I witnessed the impact one man had on multiple lives. For many reasons, I am thankful God has blessed me with the joy of this friendship and the opportunity to know this family. Only God could have allowed our paths to intersect.

In the New Testament, 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 instructs us to “rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”

Sometimes, we get so caught up in trying to figure out God’s will for our lives. I think it is spelled out pretty clearly in those verses.

Rejoice…pray…give thanks…in all circumstances, not some but all.

What if we truly lived by those words? We aren’t perfect people, but we can love other imperfect people. 

My friend is teaching me this very thing…love others well. Her dad’s life and love for others over his years was so evident today.

As I reflect on our drive home, these thoughts come to mind.

1. Life is hard but filled with meaningful life lessons if we are open to the everyday moments.

2. People need us. We need people. Everyone is fighting a battle of some sort. Be kind. Listen more than talking.

3. Rejoice…look for the everyday blessings. They are there.

4. Pray about everything.

5. Thank God. He is working even when we can’t see it.

6. When we trust God with our lives, He will bless us.

I felt it today…the love of others, the love of God. 

Life is greater than ourselves.

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Bright Spots

Ever find yourself in a challenging season of life? 

We all have at some time or another for some reason or another.

I had a conversation with a friend and together, we both realized we are experiencing similar situations that are just really, really hard right now. We talked about looking for the positive moments in our days. I suggested we text each other daily of a bright spot in our day. She thought that was a great idea. 

So today begins our “Bright Spot” text challenge. 

There always something to be grateful for and thank God for. Find an accountability partner to help you keep your eyes focused on those bright spots.

Habakkuk 3:17-19

Though the fig tree should not blossom,

nor fruit be on the vines,

the produce of the olive fail

and the fields yield no food,

the flock be cut off from the fold

and there be no herd in the stalls,

yet I will rejoice in the Lord;

I will take joy in the God of my salvation.

God, the Lord, is my strength;

he makes my feet like the deer’s;

he makes me tread on my high places.

Happy Thanksgiving

Sometimes life weighs us down, but there is always, always something to be grateful for. May we take some time today to reflect on the goodness of His blessings and the promises of His grace.

Enjoy those around you. Be grateful for the everyday blessings admist an imperfect life.

Today, just be thankful for today.

What is one thing you are grateful for today? 

For me, it is the gift of time this weekend with my family.

Happy Thanksgiving!!

Coffee Talks

Saturday morning coffee with a friend whom I haven’t seen in a while… exactly what I needed.

I met this friend in the midst of a challenging work environment where we both worked closely together to make the best out of a difficult situation. To reflect where we are both now and the journey we have taken to reach this point was encouraging. It was so encouraging to share with one another our growth and to have a shared frame of reference from where we began.

I love how God intertwines our stories with the stories of others. Relationships matter. Sometimes, they have the most unlikely of beginnings. Sometimes, they form in the most difficult moments. God knows who we need when we need them. So many of my friendships have been connections where I can truly reflect and know God placed that person in my life for a reason.

Conversation over coffee is sometimes exactly what you need.

This verse has been comforting to me this week…The righteous person will have many troubles, but the Lord will rescue him from each one. Psalm 34:19

Rescue doesn’t mean life isn’t hard, but it means God is with us and will help see us through. I believe the gift of friendship is one of the ways God rescues us.

My conversation with my friend this morning reminded me the many ways God has rescued me and carried me over the past few years.

Sometimes a cup of coffee with a friend helps put everything back in perspective.

When is the last time you set up a coffee or dinner date with a friend? Maybe it’s time.😊

***two unlikely friends***

Sunday Rest

I am so grateful for a quiet weekend.

God’s grace has been on my mind a lot as I journey through my Write 31 day challenge with my focus on grace.

Quiet time allows me to refocus, reflect, and regroup. 

I was reminded in church this morning…

I am grateful for my quiet time.

God’s grace is so good, so good.

Where have you experienced His grace?

Everyday Goodness

I am tired this evening but grateful. These past few days have been filled with reminders of His love and hope. Through relationships with family and friends, nature, joy in my calling, and the blessing to celebrate freedom, His goodness prevails. 

As I watched  The Shack for the second time this past weekend, there is a line in the movie that I think many people struggle with. The character portraying God tells Mac that his real problem is that he does not think that God is good because if he did, he would be able to trust God even when he didn’t understand what God was doing.

It is easy to think and believe God is good when all is going well. It becomes harder when life doesn’t make sense. When my coworker lost her life in child birth, I found myself wondering what good was there in that. How could that possibly be part of God’s plan? I stopped wearing my bracelet that week.


As I worked through my grief, I realized that some things in life have no answers. While I don’t understand how this fits into His plan, I believe God is ultimately good. I believe He has a plan for my pain. 
So, this Fourth of July holiday, I chose to celebrate my freedom in Christ. God is good. I may not understand many things, but I can trust He is walking this journey of my life with me and has a plan for me.

His goodness is all around me, and He has a plan. ( I am wearing my bracelet again as a reminder to me that He is with me always).

Enjoy these reminders of His goodness, and seek to find your own everyday.


United and Free

Happy Memorial Day. As a kid, this day meant no school, summer was almost here, warmer weather, and having to get up early for the parade so I could march as a good Girl Scout. I remember jumping the first time I heard the gun salute to the fallen soliders as we stood in that eerily quiet cemetery.

Over the years, my understanding​ and reverence for this day has deepened. When we traveled internationally to adopt our son, I will never forget the young male working at the airport who told my son how lucky he was to be going to America or the welcoming sense of home I felt as I walked off the plane onto American land once again.

Yesterday, in church the pastor spoke of the sense of united. The great thing about America is the sense of being united to others. There is a feeling of belonging to something greater than yourself. 

Being a part of the body of Christ is like this, too. We belong to a body of believers. We may not always agree on everything, but we should be united by our love of Christ. 

Freedom is never free. It has come with a cost. The countless number of soliders who gave their lives so we could be free…

Christ who endured suffering on the cross for our freedom from the enslavement of sin…

This Memorial Day, enjoy your cook outs, the lake, your friends and family, but please pause for a moment to return gratitude for those who sacrificed so we can be free and united together.

And remember the One who gave the Ultimate sacrifice. His love runs deep for you.